“The only way to have a friend is to be one”

If you look around you will see a lot of people whom you have met and know,but there are few persons who left footprints in your heart.They are our true friends.In my opinion friendship is a gift that God gave us to feel Beauty,Joy and Grace of our life.There are many types of it:convinience ,special-interest,historical and cross-generational friendship.I have realised that the friendship between me and my soul sister is a historical one because we have known each other for four years.That’s why i understand that there is no elevator to friendship ,you have to take the stairs.Three of them are love ,trust and  
support.
It seems to me that all love,which has not friendship for it’s base is like a mansion built out of sand.Love that i feel for my friend is like fire that burns in our hearts forever and even the strongest storm can’t put it out .I don’t express my feelings through words because they are colder than the ice.The things that every day she accepts me as i am ,believes in me ,forgives my mistakes ,says me harsh truth when it needed to be told,values me and loves me with my good and bad parts represent the warmth ,which makes us closer and happier.As far as i know friend’s love is just like a mirror and what you see out there you must first see inside of you.
From my point of view the second stair that we need to pass on the right way to friendship is trust.My soul sister is the person who knows everything about me and still likes me.That’s why we can tell to each other the most intimate secrets .When i lived the most difficult period of my life full of problems and troubles,i shared with her all that was in my soul and together we found the right solutions .Only the thing that someone understood my sufferings made me feel better.I think that trust is the bridge that will always connect our hearts .As far as i know trust and support are brother and sister that’s why they can’t live without one another.
In my opinion the friend is the person who is near you when you cry and when you laugh .This idea is also reflected in the proverb “a friend in need is a friend indeed”.I value my friend because she always supports and helps me and so do i.It was a situation when i was disappointed and i thought that my life is over and i don’t have reasons to live.My soul sister left everything and ran to help me and to offer support.She let me cry on her shoulder.In that moment i’ve understood that she is a real friend and our friendship will live forever.
In conclusion i want to mention that our lives are shaped by those who love us- our friends.I can’t imagine my world without them.Only the thought that exists a person who loves ,trust me and supports me makes me feel that i don’t live my life in vain.